SAYING THE PHRASE “I LOVE YOU” TO OPPOSITE SEX IS TRENDING, TODAY’S LOVE IS’NT PURE OR EMOTIONAL IT’S RATHER COLD AND IMPASSIVE

2018-08-26
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 Believe me, I love you. You seem world to me. Without you, I would die. I would do everything to make it work till the end. I will marry you, you are my soul mate.

Aren’t you sick of pretentious efforts?
Aren't you sick of flowery fake texts?
Aren’t you tired of a fake lover?
Aren’t you sick of fake hugs?
Aren’t you tired of lies?
WHAT ACTUALLY LOVE is?
Love is having affection towards another person. Love is the synonym of sacrifice, care, warmth, tenderness, weakness, and addiction. The phrase “ I LOVE YOU ” is a very strong, stout and vigorous. If one knows the actual meaning of love he/she would not throw the phrase I love you to dozens of people.

Love is unconditional and emotional. If you deeply and truly love someone you couldn’t shed his /her thoughts off from your heart and mind. He/ she would be your addiction, passion, and weakness but nowadays saying “love you” is just like eating your breakfast at different places with different partners. You met someone and after a few hours of small happy talk, you feel like he/she is the only one and you will die if you did not get him/her. So, you say the phrase “I love you” just to hold him/her. And here it loses its meaning because you hardly know each other.

It is actually too soon, and later you think he/she is not compatible enough, leaving behind the other person, your so-called soul mate in heartbreak, pain, and misery. Today girls and boys who are in the relationship do not know the true meaning of love NOR THEY WANT TO KNOW. They are into it because maybe he/she is good for his/her ego at the present scenario then later they shift from one to another and yet another depending upon their needs, maybe for money, maybe for beauty, maybe for fun and maybe for time pass because in today’s world people don’t value other’s feeling. You take the one, who is sincere and madly in love with you for granted and then the other one, whom you want to grab does the same with you and the cycle beings. Life is all about karma, what goes around comes around. And that’s how the energetic phrase is losing its value.

If you are talking and dating multi- boyfriends/ multi- girlfriends and thinking no one is sincere, no one cares about you or no one is understanding you then how could you expect optimism when you yourself aren’t optimistic and sincere enough to deal with one. You are just in the race of getting better after better or best after best. The one who was best for you yesterday isn’t best for you today? Think why is it so?

WHY? It because you find someone else and you were not in love, it was just a time pass. By doing this you do not only dump other person’s feelings but yourself too. In the long run, you will realize it and end up with remorse and regret, nothing else. For the time being it seems fun to you change and switching from one to other but later you realize what you did. So don’t be in rush of making boyfriends and girlfriends. Take your time, the one who is for you will come to you and then strict to that person. In the urge of finding the best, you will lose yourself. Show your true feelings. Don't be fake. Don't change your colors like Chamaeleonidae. JUST BE YOURSELF, BE UNIQUE. 

I have seen many couples, who start blaming one and other. You did this. You are the reason behind this. I am suffering this because of you. This kind of immature act brings a clash between you and your partner. Instead of blaming, think what you did for each other in order to make him/her happy. Appreciate the efforts of others. Humans do more when they are appreciated. 

Here are some of the important factors to have a peaceful and joyful relation;

Trust | Respect | Consistency | Patience | Care | Your presence

The words are purely subjective and stand for themselves. Each and every one of us knows what they mean and no matter how much we try to deny the fact; there is no magic spell to the better relationship other than to start focusing on these essentials and stop telling ourselves that it’s over, it does not trust me.  

Do you agree with this article or how you view," today's so-called love"? 

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